hate exchange
DNWs are per request, below.
General likes:
- I'd like to see your take on the characters, rather than you trying to figure out what mine is
- I want whoever's writing for me to have fun and write something they are into, if at all possible
- I love world building and dialogue and character development and all that. Don't worry that you're giving me too much exposition and not getting to the hate or the sex, I'm fine with slow build or general interest material mixed with the exchange focus.
General "hate" likes: (where, as in the exchange rules, hate stands in for all potential negative long-term emotions like disgust, constant irritation, intense lasting anger, etc)
- sarcasm, snark
- brooding
- angst about feeling hate or about being hated
- shouldn't hate but do
- should hate but don't
- conflict with loved ones over hate
- hate mixed with sexual attraction
- hate mixed with pity or solicitude
If it's between a story that you think matches my likes and prompts exactly but you don't enjoy writing, and one you really love writing but diverges from what I have asked for, I would much rather have the one you loved writing.
I mean that 100%. Thanks to discord chatters for helping me word these things!
Opt-ins for this exchange (Meaning - I'm fine with these things; I know some people aren't but it will not bother me at all if you go there, the following places):
- OCs (as long as not "reader" or "you" type)
- first, second, or third person narration, omniscient or limited or camera style viewpoint, experimental styles
- changing genders of characters (rule 63), nonbinary characters, trans characters
- BDSM, whether fully or under-negotiated, as long as not deities or males domming non-males (female or non-binary) in a way that seems sexist or gender-essentialist
- background or previous pairings or relationships of any kind are fine
- all types of endings are fine, doesn't have to be happy or hopeful
- crossovers with any fandom I've written, received, previously requested, or simultaneously requested, consisting of using characters from that other fandom in the requested setting / as minor, background, or supporting characters with the requested pairing. (exception: not Naruto, as I'm not familiar with it even though I received it in Iron Triangle :D )
General dislikes (fine in small doses or in context; these are not DNWs):
- prejudice (real life racism, sexism, homophobia, ableism, etc)
- threats to children or pets
- hate because of romantic or sexual rejection
- hate of (relatively) powerful for (relatively) powerless
Request 1: Goblin Emperor
DNW: Different-universe AUs (Canon divergence is fine)
Pairings: Uleris Chavar & Nurevis Chavar, Uleris Chavar/Shevean Drazharan, Csethiro Ceredin & Csoru Drazharan
Request 2: Star Wars The Old Republic &
DNW: Different-universe AUs (Canon divergence or AUs that still are part of Star Wars are fine)
Darth Baras & Darth Vowrawn, Darth Baras & Female Sith Warrior, Darth Baras & Male Sith Warrior, Draahg & Darth Baras, Female Sith Inquisitor & Darth Zash
Rqeuest 3: Star Wars The Old Republic /
DNW: Explicit sex in which a male character noncons a female or nonbinary character. Different-universe AUs (canon divergence or AUs that are still Star Wars are fine).
Canon specific opt-in: dubcon or noncon between same gender people, or where the aggressor is female or nonbinary.
Pairings: Malavai Quinn/Female Sith Warrior, Malavai Quinn/Male Sith Warrior, Leontyne Saresh/Darth Acina
Request 4: Chronicles of Amber
DNW: Explicit sex in stories written for & requests for this fandom. Explicit sex in which a male character noncons a female character.
Canon specific opt-in: dubcon or noncon between same gender people, or where the aggressor is female or nonbinary.
Canon-specific opt-in: Any and all AUs are fine for this fandom (AUs are explicitly part of the canon anyway).
Pairings: Brand & Martin, Eric & Corwin, Flora & Corwin, Corwin/Dara
Request 5: The Broken Earth
DNW: Different-universe AUs (canon divergence is fine). Exception: Dragon Age AU is fine for this canon.
Pairings: Nassun & Essun, Essun/Jija
Request 6: Natasha Romanov/Sameen Shaw crossover
DNW: Explicit sex with non-requested characters.
Canon specific opt-in: - AUs and fusions of all sorts
Prompts: feel free to mix and match these with any request. (Largely swiped from Darkest Night tagset)
* Abandonment Issues - one character has been abandoned and can't deal, or aftermath of one character abandoning the other at a crucial time
* Finding out another character would sacrifice them
* Finding out another character had betrayed them
* Other character is what they fear to become
* Identity Issues - character has discovered they've been lied to about their own or the other character's identity
* Character escaping a captive situation
* Character held captive by another
* Body integrity issues (after involuntary physical changes or threat thereof)
* Sex, flirting, or pretending affection for ulterior motives
* Characters are political opponents or rivals
* Threatening each other over a shared meal
* Character accepts/is inured to something horrifying to outsiders
* Character drugged with aphrodisiac or sex pollen but denied sex
* One character plans to kill the other
* Characters plot or fight together against a common enemy (even while hating)
* Character takes advantage of other character's weakness
* Character punishes self by interacting with other character
* One character set the other up to fail; someone else set both up to fail together and they blame each other
* Time loop (trying to fix things, or only one character knows, or only broken by _, or deleting things / getting worse each cycle)
* Telepathy - invasion of privacy
* Trauma or hate takes supernatural form
General likes:
- I'd like to see your take on the characters, rather than you trying to figure out what mine is
- I want whoever's writing for me to have fun and write something they are into, if at all possible
- I love world building and dialogue and character development and all that. Don't worry that you're giving me too much exposition and not getting to the hate or the sex, I'm fine with slow build or general interest material mixed with the exchange focus.
General "hate" likes: (where, as in the exchange rules, hate stands in for all potential negative long-term emotions like disgust, constant irritation, intense lasting anger, etc)
- sarcasm, snark
- brooding
- angst about feeling hate or about being hated
- shouldn't hate but do
- should hate but don't
- conflict with loved ones over hate
- hate mixed with sexual attraction
- hate mixed with pity or solicitude
If it's between a story that you think matches my likes and prompts exactly but you don't enjoy writing, and one you really love writing but diverges from what I have asked for, I would much rather have the one you loved writing.
I mean that 100%. Thanks to discord chatters for helping me word these things!
Opt-ins for this exchange (Meaning - I'm fine with these things; I know some people aren't but it will not bother me at all if you go there, the following places):
- OCs (as long as not "reader" or "you" type)
- first, second, or third person narration, omniscient or limited or camera style viewpoint, experimental styles
- changing genders of characters (rule 63), nonbinary characters, trans characters
- BDSM, whether fully or under-negotiated, as long as not deities or males domming non-males (female or non-binary) in a way that seems sexist or gender-essentialist
- background or previous pairings or relationships of any kind are fine
- all types of endings are fine, doesn't have to be happy or hopeful
- crossovers with any fandom I've written, received, previously requested, or simultaneously requested, consisting of using characters from that other fandom in the requested setting / as minor, background, or supporting characters with the requested pairing. (exception: not Naruto, as I'm not familiar with it even though I received it in Iron Triangle :D )
General dislikes (fine in small doses or in context; these are not DNWs):
- prejudice (real life racism, sexism, homophobia, ableism, etc)
- threats to children or pets
- hate because of romantic or sexual rejection
- hate of (relatively) powerful for (relatively) powerless
Request 1: Goblin Emperor
DNW: Different-universe AUs (Canon divergence is fine)
Pairings: Uleris Chavar & Nurevis Chavar, Uleris Chavar/Shevean Drazharan, Csethiro Ceredin & Csoru Drazharan
Request 2: Star Wars The Old Republic &
DNW: Different-universe AUs (Canon divergence or AUs that still are part of Star Wars are fine)
Darth Baras & Darth Vowrawn, Darth Baras & Female Sith Warrior, Darth Baras & Male Sith Warrior, Draahg & Darth Baras, Female Sith Inquisitor & Darth Zash
Rqeuest 3: Star Wars The Old Republic /
DNW: Explicit sex in which a male character noncons a female or nonbinary character. Different-universe AUs (canon divergence or AUs that are still Star Wars are fine).
Canon specific opt-in: dubcon or noncon between same gender people, or where the aggressor is female or nonbinary.
Pairings: Malavai Quinn/Female Sith Warrior, Malavai Quinn/Male Sith Warrior, Leontyne Saresh/Darth Acina
Request 4: Chronicles of Amber
DNW: Explicit sex in stories written for & requests for this fandom. Explicit sex in which a male character noncons a female character.
Canon specific opt-in: dubcon or noncon between same gender people, or where the aggressor is female or nonbinary.
Canon-specific opt-in: Any and all AUs are fine for this fandom (AUs are explicitly part of the canon anyway).
Pairings: Brand & Martin, Eric & Corwin, Flora & Corwin, Corwin/Dara
Request 5: The Broken Earth
DNW: Different-universe AUs (canon divergence is fine). Exception: Dragon Age AU is fine for this canon.
Pairings: Nassun & Essun, Essun/Jija
Request 6: Natasha Romanov/Sameen Shaw crossover
DNW: Explicit sex with non-requested characters.
Canon specific opt-in: - AUs and fusions of all sorts
Prompts: feel free to mix and match these with any request. (Largely swiped from Darkest Night tagset)
* Abandonment Issues - one character has been abandoned and can't deal, or aftermath of one character abandoning the other at a crucial time
* Finding out another character would sacrifice them
* Finding out another character had betrayed them
* Other character is what they fear to become
* Identity Issues - character has discovered they've been lied to about their own or the other character's identity
* Character escaping a captive situation
* Character held captive by another
* Body integrity issues (after involuntary physical changes or threat thereof)
* Sex, flirting, or pretending affection for ulterior motives
* Characters are political opponents or rivals
* Threatening each other over a shared meal
* Character accepts/is inured to something horrifying to outsiders
* Character drugged with aphrodisiac or sex pollen but denied sex
* One character plans to kill the other
* Characters plot or fight together against a common enemy (even while hating)
* Character takes advantage of other character's weakness
* Character punishes self by interacting with other character
* One character set the other up to fail; someone else set both up to fail together and they blame each other
* Time loop (trying to fix things, or only one character knows, or only broken by _, or deleting things / getting worse each cycle)
* Telepathy - invasion of privacy
* Trauma or hate takes supernatural form